What it means to help waiters clear the table, according to psychology

When we're eating in a restaurant and the waiter comes to clear the table after we've finished, there are two types of people: those who remain impassive while the waiter removes plates and cutlery, and those who help him. What does this behavior mean?

Lachlan Brown is a journalist specializing in human behavior who explains what it means psychologically to act this way.

As Brown explains in an article on geediting.com , this gesture demonstrates first and foremost " the immense respect these individuals have for the space of others."

"Cleaning up after a meal in a restaurant isn't just about tidiness; it's about recognizing that this space isn't just ours: It's shared with other customers , servers, and restaurant staff," Brown adds.

"These people are aware that their actions affect others. Their courtesy is a manifestation of empathy , an understanding that their behavior can contribute to or alleviate the burdens of those around them," the author continues.

Secondly, it demonstrates " not only that we are aware, but also that we take responsibility for our behaviors and their consequences."

Lachlan Brown adds that helping servers is a sign of self-discipline: "Discipline isn't about what's convenient. It's about doing the right thing , even when it's not easy," he says.

"Interestingly, those who clean up after meals in restaurants also tend to be detail-oriented," continues Lachlan Brown, who says that "detail-oriented people are more likely to produce high-quality work and achieve their goals."

Another trait of people who assist waiters is high emotional intelligence, that is, "the ability to understand and manage not only their own emotions but also to empathize with others ."

"Taking responsibility for your actions, even if it's something as small as cleaning up in a restaurant, is a sign of maturity and respect for others. It shows that you're not afraid to admit your mistakes and take steps to correct them," Brown concludes.